WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING

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My first interaction with Mrs. Keisha Bass was a timid one. I was pregnant at the time with my first child, and scared for my marriage. My husband and I had been disputing things a lot lately. I was not strong in my prayer life, I was withholding intimacy, and I was just in a dark place. I started going to couple sessions that Mrs. Keisha and her husband Mr. Chris held at our church, but I still felt alone. I was in a new city, with no friends, and my supposed to be best friend at that time was my enemy. I felt like I was in my marriage by myself. I wanted to change him soooo bad. The first piece of advice that Mrs. Keisha gave me was to worry about myself and to not worry about changing him so much, but to change me. She also encouraged me to pray for change in myself and ask God that through a better reflection of me that my husband is changed in returned. It bothered me often that I felt like I had this new fun, loving person now that I was connecting with and looking up to, and my husband had no one. My husband is very reserved and I prayed often for a spiritual father for him to guide him to be the husband I know he can be to me. God is still working on that one lol. We took our first couple's trip with The Brook that year and Mr. and Mrs. Bass hosted and we had the best time. Met some couples around our age, had a date night, and had some baby-free time (which is what we needed). That conference allowed me to get to know my husband better, myself better, and my prayer life better. I definitely had some work to do. The tools that Mrs. Bass instilled in me during those sessions changed my life, and she even followed up with me after the trip. I felt special. Even though I have a great mom, my mother and father divorced years ago. It is good to have a blueprint of not a perfect marriage, but a destined marriage by God. I can honestly say Mrs. Keisha is like a spiritual mom to me. Whatever advice she gives, I trust that it is coming from a place of love and honesty.

 

Thank you 

Keisha Bass is truly sent from heaven.  I am so thankful that our paths crossed.  So many times I've been having a bad day and I'd randomly receive some inspirational text from her that turned my whole mood around.  The amazing thing is that these texts were never provoked by me, NEVER because I reached out to her about what I was going through.  They were always random...random to me but clearly provoked by God, and thankfully she was always obedient.  Additionally, her posts on marriage are constantly inspiring and helping me to be a better wife.  I am truly thankful for this amazing woman of God.

 

Love you

Keisha Bass! She is such an amazing mentor. She has taken me under her wings and helped me to grow as an individual and as a wife. She is constantly uplifting and provides guidance and advice based on God’s word. She is always there when I need her and she intercedes on your behalf even when you do not have the strength to pray for yourself. She truly has the heart for wives and a genuine desire to help save marriages. She is an beautiful person inside and out and she has changed my life for the better. I would not be the woman of faith I am and the wife I am today if it was not for her love and guidance helping me along the way! She is truly a god- sent answered prayer for my marriage and I cannot wait to learn more and grow more under her mentorship!

When I met Keisha it was like an instant connection. Her smile and hug was warm and purposeful. Everything that she does it is done intentionally. She has inspired me to want to be a better wife to my husband and a better mother to my children just by watching her actions with her husband and daughter. What I love about her too is that she holds you accountable and she will tell it like it is. When I needed her she was always right there ready and able with a word and prayer. All in all she is definitely someone that I can truly call FRIEND!

Keisha Bass has been a true inspiration to me. From the beginning, she embraced me with a warm hug, a bright smile, and an encouraging word. Her transparency, honesty, and passion for reaching and teaching other wives is what makes her a jewel. Keisha has inspired me to be the best wife that I can be while leading by example. Whether it be a scripture, words of encouragement, or a book about marriage, she is always there to provide guidance and direction. I am forever grateful that our paths crossed and I had the opportunity to meet such a beautiful woman of God; both inside and outside. 

Thank you I couldn’t type without holding back tears
This is my testimony:

 

I met this spiritual young lady Keisha last year 2018 when I joined the Brook Wives Small Group (BWSG). There was an announcement one Sunday morning during church service about having a session to empower and encourage wives in their marriage and  to help wives understand the power and purpose of being a Godly wife. So, I sent an email right after church service to be part of this session and the same day I got an email response stating that the session was closed. I said to myself “Lord I guess it wasn’t meant for me to be in that group, but I need to know how to be a Godly wife.” A week went by and all of the sudden I received this email stating: I just had a spot come open.   Since you were next on my list I wanted to reach out to you to see if you are still interested.  Please let me know. All I could say was look at God, I quickly respond back and said yes I’m still interested. 

 

On our first meeting we had to introduce ourselves and talk to others wives. Of course I didn’t know anyone, so I didn’t say much to the others wives. We meet every other Monday for six weeks and for at least four of those week I didn’t say that much. I was thinking to myself Lord what have I gotten myself into. I can’t open up to these wives, I don’t know them they might look at me funny when they see me in church (I mean everything was going through my head). For our assignment we had to read this book called “Becoming Your Husband Best Friend”-Secrets to Loving The Man You Married (which is an awesome book to read) and I could relate to that entire book. At one of our meeting she called on me to respond about the chapter we had to read I was so nervous Keshia said to me don’t be scared say what’s on your mind and of course I said something but not that much. After the session was over she called me to the side and says to me I feel something isn’t right with your marriage you holding on to something (tears came to my eyes). She asked me to meet her at church on Wednesday before bible study, so we can talk before service. I meet we her and before I said anything to her she gave me a paper with different scriptures and the first one she wanted me to read about was forgiveness. Tears just started rolling. She knew exactly what I have been dealing with in my marriage and that’s when I open up to her about my marriage struggle. She prayed for me and told me that I’m not alone and that things are going to turn around for you and your marriage. 

 

At our next meeting we had to go around again and at this particular meeting I was ready to tell my story. I learned how to put God first in my marriage, how to pray for my marriage, how to forgive, how to have conversations with my husband, and how to love him all over again. It just felt so good to know that this woman cared about me and didn’t judge me from my past. When I tell you this is a woman of God-she kept in touch with me, she prayed for me, she texted me every other day, and sent me prayers. I have never met anyone like her. There are not enough words to express how AWESOME she has been in my life. Every time I see her she hugs me and chills run through my body. She is powerful. I just want to say thank you and I love you!! Keep praying for me. 🥰 SLD

Keisha Bass has been a true inspiration to me. From the beginning, she embraced me with a warm hug, a bright smile, and an encouraging word. Her transparency, honesty, and passion for reaching and teaching other wives is what makes her a jewel. Keisha has inspired me to be the best wife that I can be while leading by example. Whether it be a scripture, words of encouragement, or a book about marriage, she is always there to provide guidance and direction. I am forever grateful that our paths crossed and I had the opportunity to meet such a beautiful woman of God; both inside and outside.

Keisha has been such a blessing to me and my growth as a woman of God and a wife. She has mentored me and help me to learn that is is my responsibility to set the atmosphere for my husband regardless of how things look in my marriage. She is an awesome woman of God!

A woman of class and grace.... consistently guiding women through marriage using the word of God.... she loves on you genuinely.... she encourages you passionately...I’m thankful for the consistent, authentic, and bold example of a Godly wife that I have in her! She equips me with the tools I need to work my marriage God’s way. 

Keisha has been an amazing support and inspiration in my journey of marriage. There is not one time I haven’t reached out to her and she has not been there. I know each time she provides wisdom to me she always refers to the Word of God as guidance. She is a true example of a wife and woman who inspires others to know that successful and strong marriages do exist and they take work. I am grateful that God allowed our paths to cross.

-RS

I can remember being a very young girl and watching sister Keisha as she walked in church. She carried herself with so much grace, confidence, and elegance. I had never seen such a thing in church, because all of the women I saw serving were much older and way less stylish! I remember thinking “that’s how I’m going to be!” 

 

Through years of transitions we wound up at the same church again; however this time I was an adult and had also gained confidence, style, and grace. As I embarked on my journey to marriage I learned sister Keisha would be leading the pre-marital counseling. I was overwhelmed with joy because this was someone I admired at an early age. We grew closer through counseling and the connection was unbelievable. It’s like she’d been walking beside me my entire life. If I text her in the middle of the night, she responds. If I’m having a bad day, she seems to know and texts me. Her random words of encouragement, her push for my spiritual growth, her transparency, and continuous prayers help keep me surrendered to God’s will for me! Thank you will never be enough!

I can't say enough about Keisha and Chris. As ministry leaders, as a couple, as mentors, they are simply amazing!

 

My husband was NOT a fan of pre martial counseling at firsr and he wasn't looking forward to it. But after the first session he seemed to have a fire in him to learn more about me and had a real desire to connect with me. It was great! He beat me to complete our workbook readings and questions every week. I learned how to really listen to what my fiancé at the time wasn't saying and that has made our marriage a pleasure! I know it won't always be peaches and creme but with the tools we learned in our classes, I know we will get through the hard times a little bit easier. The patience Keisha and Chris showed us was so amazing.  By them taking their time to understand us, I really felt they cared about our relationship with God and each other, not just the marriage. I'm so happy that we got to work with the Bass'. They will forever be apart of our victory and I am so grateful for that!

 

D. W. 

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